1. Excessive use of the Internet, deleting emails, using new or free email accounts, using computer alone and secretly.
2. Sudden increase in time away from home, working late or overtime. Extra unexplained mileage on the odometer.
3. Hiding the cell/house phone bill, suspicious and long cell phone calls, suddenly starts to use a phone card, leaves the room to talk on phone, receiving hang-up phone calls.
4. Unexplained payments on bank statements, has more cash on hand without accountability, unexplained receipts in wallet or purse. Florist or jewelry bills.
5. Sudden and unexplained change in clothing style, clothes smell of perfume, buys sexy underwear or lingerie, has laundry done independently, no longer wearing a wedding ring.
6. Joins a health gym or weight-reducing clinic. Starts making visits to the tanning salon. New hairstyle.
7. There is an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship. No longer interested in sex with you.
8. Oddities: The toilet bowl seat is up, (men) and when you left home it was down. The passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position. Discovery of a Post Office Box.
9. Saying, “I need my space”, “unavailable” at work, calls from you are not returned in a timely manner.
10. When questioned, says, “It’s your imagination; you’re crazy and paranoid”.